Relationships

Reasons and Expectations

Consider many of the common reasons and expectations:

1.       I like your looks—I want you to be mine.

2.       I like your car—I want you to be mine.

3.       I have no idea of who you really are, but with our love, we can work anything out.

4.       We will photograph well together.

5.       Don’t you think that we will have pretty children?

6.       I know that he is not everything I always wanted, but I can change him.

7.       What expectations?  We get married, and we are happy.  It’s that simple.

8.       I don’t like being alone!

9.       I just need a meal ticket for me and the kids.

10.   If I can get my name on the dotted line, my worries will be over.

Before you laugh at the above, think about your experiences and what you have heard from others.  What can you add to the list?

Better Suggestions

Serious relationships like business partners, marriage, and raising children should require serious consideration, preparation, and continuing effort if you want to be successful.  You may have your name on the dotted line, but remember that having a quality relationship requires both sides putting in quality.

Putting quality into a relationship requires meeting responsibilities and having realistic expectations.  The idea of surrendering everything over in a relationship is exactly the wrong concept.  When you neutralize yourself you have nothing to give and nothing with which to receive.  That is hardly the basis for a successful relationship. 

Wanting a successful relationship is reason to improve yourself to where you are bringing strength and ability to the table.  This is true for all relationships if you want to be an effective parent, make money, or to provide your romantic partner with someone worthy of their love.  This is where mind growth and awareness becomes important. 

Bottom Line

Serious relationships should not be considered an impulse buy.  Working out the problems after the dotted line is signed is asking for failure.  Find out who you are and what you really want.  Work at elevating your awareness.  Find out who your potential relationship partner really is, including their expectations for giving and getting.  Not only should you meet your potential partner’s deeper expectations, but they should also meet yours—do not gloss over this.

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