Gaining Control

Personal Control

Let’s look at the term self-control first.  Simply stated, self-control implies being able to appropriately say yes or no and stick with the decisions.  That implies that we don’t eat or drink too much, or drive too fast, etc.  In essence, good self-control would be following what we think we know to be the proper choices even when others are urging otherwise.

Now, let’s look at personal control a bit differently.  Our ability to control the quality of our lives, including stress levels, is directly related to how well we develop and maintain our internal mental resources.  When we create better knowledge of ourselves and beyond along with improved mental skills, our judgment and strength to use it will improve also.  Meaningful knowledge and skills create personal power or control. 

Defensive Control

Defensive control is simply sales or external pressure resistance.  Can you give the best answer for yourself when dealing with a salesperson, your child, parent, friend, or a compelling situation?  Mind growth increases insight and strength, which is personal power and that is better control.  Instead of saying: “I always fall for that pitch.” it is time to declare enough is enough.

Offensive Control

While many individuals live to exercise control over others, many find the concept distasteful.  But consider this: If you want to take or have your children take their rightful place in this world, you will have to be able to deal with others effectively.  Exercising control over others does not mean that you have to be abusive or take advantage, but it can be necessary to protect your space or the space of your loved ones.  Be careful with compromising to avoid assuming control.  The negative results of compromising can be most significant and very difficult to reverse.  Think carefully about the benefits of being in control.

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